Comments on: Married Dating Sites – Illicit Encounters is the Best

By: ann

ann — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 20:05:52 +0000

I’ve been a member of IE on and off for about 3 years, I’ve had some great affairs, but I have to say too many men expect the world for a virtual kiss. When I am looking I take it seriously, my best affair to date was by me approaching him.

I wonder if the men who are disillusioned are really looking for an equal for an affair or a “bit on the side”. Any man who even makes a meet with me has to be 110% honest, and I spend a lot of time talking before I decide. My view is its worth their effort, I know what I want when I see it. I’d guess 1 in 10 at most of the contacts has actually paid attention to what I’ve said, and address that in their initial contact. Looks don’t matter have refused to meet some amazing looking guys, just not felt the spark in the conversation.

I don’t think I’m alone, ie that its not a scam, just a lot of unreal expectations. I guess after the first it becomes easier, but I wouldn’t consider another website, I meet men of a type I would meet in my “normal” life (ie they can afford it and don’t see the cost as excessive), just make sure they are sufficiently removed to not be a threat, all about education/ work/ family life.

By: charles

charles — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 21:33:46 +0000

It may be the best and there are plently of real women on there. I’ve met some. But there are also plenty of what seem to be fakes who tend to melt away after a couple of texts like T3ad2010 says it’s easy enough to recognise them after a while but this must be a scam run by the IE team.

By: MOUSE

MOUSE — Thu, 14 Oct 2010 15:27:41 +0000

I have used this site on/off for 3 years and have met many men
GOODNESS…Why do they pay and then not go though with it!!!!!
Two nice guys..full of then selfs and what they were going to do…BOTH bottled it!!!
then there are the online W**KERs who want dirty chat..so they can play!!!
But….saying all that made some great friends,had amazing sex,and have now got a very cute lover:O)
If you want it…….just keep trying

By: NatWest

NatWest — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 13:47:41 +0000

I’ve just had a week on marital dating site Ashley Madison, having previously been a member for several months on Illicit Encounters. What a let down and waste of money! Most women on Ashley Madison seem to be either fake or asking fro money. The entire experience made me feel soiled and violated! It’s made me realize that Illicit Encounters, although on the surface expensive, is actually by far the best value for money dating site in this genre. On Ashley Madison I soon worked out that they use the fake profiles to sucker you into using up your credits fast. My £49 worth only lasted 3 days during which time I had a few chats and sent out a dozen or so introductory messages without getting very far. On Illicit Encounters my £129 allowed unlimited communications over a month and the opportunity to get closer to the finishing post – i.e. a meeting with a genuine person! This (and more!) I’ve done with a few ladies on the site now and I plan to go back to Illicit Encounters soon for more!

By: mauricemicklewhite

mauricemicklewhite — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 20:42:16 +0000

Sorry to hear about your experience but it makes me think you must have been on a different site entirely or you’ve described yourself as an ugly dwarf. My Illicit Encounters experience has been totally positive and I’ve been a member for two years (luckily my wife doesn’t look at my credit card statements!).Expensive yes, but it works. I’ve had a series of affairs with women I’ve met via the site having previously sampled others. I wouldn’t pay my money anywhere else now.

By: TheCad

TheCad — Tue, 12 Oct 2010 11:08:15 +0000

I’ve been a full member of Illicit Encounters on three occasions and on each I’ve met a lady with whom I’ve had an affair. It’s not rocket science! Be warm, witty and normal and you’ll find you get the responses you’re seeking.

By: Pablo D

Pablo D — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 13:11:21 +0000

I’ve been a member of many dating sites, both singles and married ones. Most have engaged in some kind of sharp marketing practices. The only one that I’ve had success with is Illicit Encounters. I’ve yet to read posts anywhere from guys who have met and had affairs with genuine women on either of IE’s competitor sites Ashley Madison or Marital Affair. If you join the former you’re played like a violin by their slick scamming operation and if you join the latter your profile will also appear on dozens of other seedy ‘adult’ sites. IE has worked for me without me being a ‘saddo’ who has hours to spend online every day chatting up all and sundry. Try posting a witty, confident but self deprecating profile and you’ll be inundated with responses from genuine ladies like I have been.

By: Marcus

Marcus — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 15:23:15 +0000

Illicit Encounters is a total 100% scam site, designed to steal money from unsuspecting men. It baffles me as to how these people are allowed to continue scamming. A few – and I emphasize – a few men get lucky, and these tend to be the ones who are prepared to sit at their PCs for several hours every day sending messages to virtually every woman who joins. If you are tall, slim amd rich it certainly does help! Sadly, many of us are none of these, and in this case don’t have much of a chance. Women are always available to the rich – they don’t need IE. For ordinary short, fat middle income blokes IE is not likely to be much use I’m afraid. Most of the women on IE seem real stuck-up cows full of pretentious BS and fancy ideas. My opinion: avoid.